Archive for May, 2007

Nice Pics PJ!

Thursday, May 31st, 2007

5/31/2007 8:27PM

Sa mga kaibigan ko na kasama sa barbecue sa Futako Tamagawa….check out this pics by Percival Canlas. Who by the way…was..my former student in Don Bosco!

Yes I am proud of him. Eh tinuruan ko yan eh! He he he!

Check out the link below. Simply amazing! (I can’t stop typing exclamation points!)

http://flickr.com/photos/peejay/sets/72157600287906356/show/

Panic Mode

Thursday, May 31st, 2007

Apr 31, 2007 8:19PM
Yes, I am in official panic mode. My sister Marites’ wedding is a little more than a week to go. Things I need to do:

1. Finish wedding reception program
2. Finalize seating arrangment
3. Practice all songs for the wedding, including special numbers
4. Translate all speeches
5. CLEAN my apartment (yikes!!!)

Running the Race

Sunday, May 27th, 2007

Fit_run May 28, 2007 2:25PM
Two days ago, me and my friends joined the FIT Charity run held at the Imperial Palace.
Me and my pals(Kuya Nic, Jun, Kazu, my sister Tes, Ness, Lenlen, Francia) ran the 10k race. Two of my friends, Alma and Chris, ran the 5k race. It was a battle from the start…running against your self ,not against others. Can I do it? Can I finish the race? These were some of the questions that went through my mind as I ran. Ugh…keep pace. Keep pace. Never give up. You can do it. Lord help me finish. And you know what? We all did! Congratulations to all my friends. WE DID IT!

Sana, kahit sa karera ng buhay natin…ganyan din ang ipakita natin na lakas, tyaga at pananampalataya. Sa awa at tulong ng Diyos, mararating din natin ang finish line. Sama sama tayong lahat, mga kaibigan ko. Good times!

"I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith"  - 2 Tim 4:7

Soundtrack of Your Life?

Tuesday, May 8th, 2007

Neworder Bernard Sumner of NEW ORDER, 2007
May 9, 2007 6:47AM
Do you ever notice the powerful effect music has on our lives? For example, I was watching the movie "Napoloeon Dynamite" a few weeks ago, and during the ending credits, the song "The Promise" by WHEN IN ROME, started playing. "When you need a friend…dont look to a stranger…."

Bam! Goose bumps all over the place. That song brought back so many memories for me. High School memories that is. Wow…that i s the reason why I would always think that the 80’s was the best. And not just because Michael Jordan started playing for the NBA in 1984, or that Billy Ray Bates and Crispa ruled the PBA during the 80s. (Yes..I always have to insert a basketball reference in here huh?)

Without further ado, here is a PARTIAL list of the soundtrack of my life, with emphasis to my teenage years (1986-1992)

1. The Promise - When In Rome
2. Boys Don’t Cry - The Cure
3. Just Like Heaven - The Cure
4. Bizarre Love Triangle - New Order
5. Heaven Knows I’m Miserable Now - The Smiths
6. Love Vigilantes - New Order
7. Sahara Night - FR David
8. In Between Days - The Cure
9. I Melt With You - Modern English
10. Tenderness - General Public
11. Dreaming - OMD

Each of these songs have a story to tell.  I um…actually have to go to work.

So I’ll share a few stories on these songs next time.

I promise.

Have a blessed day!

GOAL! Staying on Target…One Day At A Time

Tuesday, May 8th, 2007

May 8, 2007 8:54PM
A recurring nightmare that I have is waking up, and finding myself all grayed out,balding (just a little), having a  big fat gut, waiting for a heart attack at the ripe old age of 72, and STILL here in Japan, working, and trying to earn money to send my grandkids and THEIR kids to college.

I would then receive a video phone call from my grand daughter Tundra(don’t ask me..I did not name her):

"Lolo bakit wala pa yung padala mo sa banko? Sabi ni Lola, pangako mo daw ngayong katapusan. Atsaka Lolo Edsel….si Lolo Pierre nga pala eh kelangan din ipa-checkup dahil yung kanyang pigsa sa magkabilang singit eh lumaki na naman daw…baka kelangan na operahin"
Feeling dazed and confused as I could not associate the name LOLO PIERRE with anyone I knew I ask my grand daughter:  "uh..teka Tundra…sino nga ba uli si Lolo Pierre?"

Tundra would reply non-chalantly "Ah, Lolo, nakalimutan mo ba? Yung bagong ka-MU ni Lola na foren-ger…May isang buwan na kayo ‘break’ ni Lola di ba?"

Noooooooo!!!!
I’d wake up sweating and look immediately in the mirror.I am still 33 years old. Check. Still in Japan, working. Check. Married with one daughter. Check.
All of which brings me to the point of this day’s blog. I really really need to set my goals so that the nightmare above does not become a reality. I’ll be frank with you, dear blog reader. I wish I was back in the Philippines with my wife and baby. I miss them SOO much, that it hurts. It sometimes seems unfair, but at the same time, in life, sometimes sacrifices need to be made. Which is why I havde decided to set my goals and do my best to stay on target. However….
In order to set one’s goals, one must first decide what they want in life.
I have asked myself the question so many times: What is it that I want in life?
And here are my honest answers:
1. I want to be a man who runs the race and finishes it. I want to be a good Christian
2. I want to be a good and loving father to my daughter and good loving and loyal husband to my wife
3. I want to be a good son and brother too
4. I want to be healthy and live a comfortable life(have my own house and our own car), spending most of my time with my family and doing the things I love doing like playing sports (basketball) and playing the guitar
5. I want to be a teacher and coach, to make a difference to people’s lives, in my own small way
6. I want to have financial independence and a decent savings to provide for
my family..and for myself when I retire
7. I want to have the ability to travel to another country every once in a while
wow, seven goals! they seem achievable right? kayang kaya kaya?
Under those seven goals, I think I should put in what I call SSTG, an acronym for SUB SHORT TERM GOALS.
Basically as SSTG is a set of short term achievable goals that when developed over time, will lead to the achievment of those main goals.
My SSTGs are as follows:
1.1 Continue to attend weekly bible studies class, and Sunday services
1.2 Strengthen the habit of reading the bible daily, and spending time, having "conversations"
     with God.
2.1 Maintain good communication with my wife and daughter despite our current long distance. Express to them in any way how much I love them…everyday.
2.2 Pray
2.3 Pray
2.4 See 2.2 and 2.3
2.5 Set the goal to be with them PERMANENTLY within the end of next year
3. Do my best to be spend time with my Dad when I am in the Philippines. Call more often. Same thing to my sisters. Avoid  "Cats In the Cradle" syndrome at all costs!
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Time with the family: A goal worth pursuing

4.1 Hit target weight by my 34th bday (61 kg).  Bye bye Coke belly! Eat healthier and exercise more.
4.2 Save save save. Ride taxis as a last resort. Have zero debts/loans/mortgages by end of the year.
4.3 Give back more to God, who has given me EVERYTHING. Money is an instrument to reach your goals, but I do not want it to be my god.
As for numbers 5, 6 and 7, I guess they all go back to 4.2, gaining financial independence.
The bible says in Prov 19:21 "Many are the plans in a man’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails"
The Bible ALSO says in Prov 16:3 "Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed"
So yes, these are my goals, my heart’s desires, but I do realize that in the end, it will be God’s will that will prevail. Bottom line…my hope and prayer is that may my desires be in ALIGNMENT with God’s plan.
Sana nga tuloy tuloy na to. To all my friends reading this…please kindly say a quick prayer for me, would you?
I hope and pray to stay on target, one day at a time. And maybe, just maybe…the nightmares will pave the way for a dream that comes true.
Thank you for reading and God bless
-Lolo Pierre using Edsel’s PC
:)

Marty!!!!

Friday, May 4th, 2007

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So this morning I went to Shibuya NHK hall to play basketball. Unfortunately when I got there, the courts were closed due to an event. In any case, I went on my way home riding my bike. On my way downhill the Shibuya crossing, I had to stop since there was a red light. Then guess who I saw standing beside me, waiting to cross the street? Marty Friedman!!! Yeah! Simply the most amazing guitar player of my lifetime. Wow, just wow. This was how our conversation went:

me: Um…Marty? Marty Friedman?
Marty: Hai..Konnichiwa
me: Hi, my name is Eddie. Wow! Oh my gosh! Marty! Big Megadeth fan! Very big!
Marty: Nihonggo umae desu ne…
me: Oh no, I am not Japanese. I’m from the Philippines. Wow…
I knew you had a show in Makati Philippines. Wow! My gosh..Um Marty…would you mind if I take a picture with you using my phone camera?
Marty:  Um…sure, but better be quick. I have to be somewhere.
me: No problem. This will really be quick. (puts out phone, takes the shot without panicking)
me: Thank you Marty! Thank you! Nice to meet you!
Marty: Yes, see yah. Nice to meet you Eddie!

So, I hoped I did not look like a total dork. Ha ha. Oh well, just to give you a background, I was a big Megadeth fan in college. Megadeth was a heavy metal band that wrote and performed songs which were heavy, fast and technically difficult to do. There messages varied from politics to aliens to the extinction of the species. In any case, the main guitar players, Dave Mustaine and Marty Friedman, were the architects of the band. Together they wrote the most melodic and fast guitar solos that are known to man. Marty left Megadeth to form a solo career and has been living in Japan for some time now. So I guess when he saw me at first, he was assuming I was Japanese who spoke english quite well. Wow…its quite a privilege and honor to meet your childhood hero.

Thank you Marty!

Along Came a Spider…

Wednesday, May 2nd, 2007

May 3, 2007 1:11am
Toby

"Uncle Ben wouldn’t want us living with revenge in our hearts, it’s like a poison. It can take you over and turn us into something ugly…"

That quote was from Aunt May from Spiderman 3. I thought it was very memorable and is a good reminder for all of us who, in one way or another, have been offended by someone else. It does not matter if it’s an incident like say, someone giving us the finger when we have been a bit rowdy in the movies or if its an even bigger deal such as a good friend betraying you (insert heart breaking love triangle story in here)…the bottom line is at some point in our lives, we all have been hurt by someone. At the same time, there is probably a good chance that we have hurt someone else too.
Forgiveness is one of the toughest thing to do, but like a good old friend once told me…we better learn how to do it, before our hearts become callous and hardened. Another thing is one must learn to forgive oneself as well, so as to avoid living in guilt and shame for a long time. Whew! A bit heavy today eh? Well I guess all I want to say is: Go watch Spiderman 3. Great great movie. Spectacular action and there is a moral lesson too. Like our great Filipino stars would often say when promoting their OWN movies:  "Panoorin nyo po ang pelikula namin. Meron po itong lahat. May action, may drama, may comedy, kantahan at sayawan. Pambuong pamilya itong pelikuka na to"

Goodnight my friends…and God bless

-Toby using Edsel’s PC